Karakternya :
Minggu pertama :
At this age he doesn't grasp the concept of
travel, but he'll realize he's in an unfamiliar place. Be ready for some
cranky, clingy behavior and prepare plenty of distractions —
picture books, noise-making toys, nesting blocks,
hand puppets, and definitely his lovey, if he has one. Schedule plenty of downtime
away from all the strangers to let him decompress.
Coping with separation
Now, and for the next few months, separation
anxiety is at its peak. Although it's normal now for a baby to show an extreme
attachment to you and fear of everyone else, it can be difficult for doting
grandparents and caregivers. You can help ease transitions for your baby by
warning people to approach slowly and let your baby make the first move.
If your baby uses a thumb or pacifier to soothe himself as he tries to cope
with his anxiety, that's okay. Sucking is one of your baby's only methods of
calming himself.
o.. pantes, agha juga gt, kalau
dulu, ketika ketemu orang baru, agha mau tersenyum dan tertawa bila digoda,
tapi sekarang nggak, kalau ketemu orang baru malah takut.. hmm... ternyata..
^-^. berarti solusinya adalah :
- warning
people to approach slowly and let your baby make the first move,
- Schedule
plenty of downtime away from all the strangers to let him decompress
- Sucking is one of your baby's only methods of calming
himself.
- childproofing
your house
hmm... berarti
umi harus beli :
- picture
books (baru 1, beli lagi yukkk ^-^), hmmm, asik bentar lagi ada islamic
book fair 2013, insyaAllah umi kesana sama abi beliin buku-buku buat agha
(^-^)
- noise-making
toys(uda banyak)
- nesting
blocks
- hand
puppets (uda punya)
- Mainan
untuk anak umur 9-12 bulan : Push toys (alhamdulillah sudah ada),
Shape sorters, Balls (uda punya ^-^, Balls (uda juga), sumber : http://www.babycenter.com/0_toys-for-9-to-12-month-olds_820.bc
Minggu kedua :
By this week, your baby will start to remember more specific information, such
as where her toys are in your home. She'll also be able to imitate actions
she's seen as long as a week before.
These skills indicate that she has recall memory — the ability to remember some
details of a specific experience for a short time — though she still doesn't
remember most of her experiences. Long-lasting conscious memory of specific
events won't develop until your child is 2 or 3 years old, when real language
emerges.
Minggu ketiga :
The torrent of words your baby has been hearing
since birth is beginning to work its magic, although his understanding of words
far outpaces his ability to use them. His babbling has turned to jabber and is
probably starting to sound a little like real words, phrases, and sentences.
Your baby thinks he's saying something, so respond as if he really is!
Your baby still comprehends more from your tone than from your actual words. He
can understand when you're pleased. The more you talk to your baby — either
directly or while doing other things, such as preparing dinner, driving, or
getting dressed — the more he learns about communication.
o... berarti harus diajak ngobrol
ni :D, hehe
Minggu keempat :
Your baby's personality is really emerging now.
She may be very social, granting broad smiles to everyone she meets, or a
little more shy, hiding her face when well-meaning strangers try to engage her.
Your baby may charge ahead boldly or assess the situation carefully before
going further. She might be even tempered or switch her moods quite
dramatically.
She'll gesture for your attention and may wave
goodbye when she sees you head for the door. She's also developing a mind of
her own, which you may run up against when you try to put her in her car seat
or stroller.
Aghaku umur 9 bulan (besok pas 9 bulan):
karakternya seperti yang umi baca di babycenter.com : maunya sama orang yang
familiar, kalau orang baru dia takut.. hihi, anak sholeh umi sayang (^-^), agha
juga lagi asik-asiknya rembetan (berjalan dengan memegang furniture), merangkak
kemana-mana, mencoba mamanjat, seslalu tertarik dengan barang baru dan pengen
langsung diraih dan dipegang, suka main bola kainnya, tertawa bia digelitik dan
digoda (^-^) subhanallah.. semoga agha kelak menjadi anak sholeh dan berbakti
kepada orang tua, berjalan di jalan Allah SWT, hidup untuk beribadah kepada
Allah SWT, amin ya robbal alamin...
Maksudnya:“Tidaklah
Aku jadikan jin dan manusia, kecuali agar mereka beribadah kepada Ku”
(Az-Zariyat:
56)
